And He said to another, âFollow Me.â But he said, âLord, permit me first to go and bury my father.â But He said to him, âAllow the dead to bury their own dead; but as for you, go and proclaim everywhere the kingdom of God.â (Luke 9:59â60)âFirst to go and bury my father.â At first glance, this seems to be a reasonable request. It was every son's duty to make sure that his father was properly cared for in death (cf. Gen. 25:9; 35:29; 49:29â50:13); only the high priest (Lev. 21:10â11) and those who had taken a Nazarite vow (Num. 6:6â7) were excused from their father's funeral, since they were forbidden to go near a dead person.The problem with the man's excuse was that his father was not yet dead! Since the Jews did not embalm, Jewish custom dictated that burial take place immediately after death. A comparison of John 11:1, 6, and 17 reveals that Lazarus was buried the same day that he died (one day for the messenger from Mary and Martha to reach Jesus, Jesus delayed two more days, then arrived on the fourth day to find that Lazarus had been buried four days earlier). Both Ananias (Acts 5:6) and Sapphira (v.10) were buried immediately after they died.What this man was really saying was that he wanted to delay following the Lord until his father died and he received his inheritance. He knew that Jesus was moving out of the area, and to leave now might cause him to lose out on his share of his father's estate. Unlike the Twelve (cf. Matt. 19:27; Luke 5:11, 28), he was not willing to leave everything and follow Jesus. . . .